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Remember the time in your life after 10^th, when you are confused about science, commerce and arts. You family want you to become doctor and your friends are going in commerce. But you don’t know is what you want do and what you really want to do. When I was in that time what I missed was counseling for not what I wanted to do after 10^th but where I can go after choosing that option.

Well everyone want to become doctor, engineer and CA in the school life, but do we realize at that time what our real interest in life, sometime we don’t. Our career option is limited to the fixed option we have always told about, but we never want to make our interest as our career. Take a example of me, If I could have pursue my interest I would have took literature rather than commerce but I could because I was not sure of my interest and also about how my career would be, what I would do after that, what my friend will say. I wish someone could have guided me at that time, apart from my family member who would have been unbiased in his/her opinion and told me what was right, rather than telling me what he has done and what I should do even though I don’t want to do it.

While working in startup I always look for some innovative startups, recently I found one startup which help student to make a correct career decision. Meracareerguide.com, this is a website which help student to get customize career (Well I could not stop myself using my customize work here also), you find the unbiased opinion about the career option apart from teacher, doctor and engineer. Thank god they help DJ, writer and also sometime sports person wanabe student, who can be as good in their field if they guided as the studious student in numbers. As we move towards the tier- II city and rural area, where student have less exposure towards the other career and to the counseling, they find it most difficult to decide about the career they want to choose. It leave them with only few options in the career and sometime they are even not sure about their interest in life, You don’t have to worry about that. Meracareerguide.com can help you in choosing the right career for you. Not only where your interest is but also where your real ability lies. The common mistake we make in choosing in career is we like some career and make choice in basis of that, but in reality sometime we find our real interest is not there and we could not fit in that environment. 

They have one very innovative test called, psychometric test which help student to choose the career where their interest really are. Well as I am really week in numbers what I understood is that it helps to calculate you interest on basis of some basic which help you to analyze how good you are in anything which you are choosing. Sound simple, indeed it will because those all coder writing code of this test have gone wanted to take out there anger because they know they could have been DJ or any other thing apart from this demanding job. Well my advice will be before you kill yourself with a wrong career choice or a wrong career decision, take a write decision and visit mearcareerguide.com so they can help you in selecting your career.

It will help out those student who are still working there socks up but don’t know about there real ability. Lots of natural talent can be nurtured and also we can see student realize their dreams. Some time you need only a guide to tell you where you real path lies. 

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College life... the few question let unanswered..

As I look back to my college days, I definitely have some question which cannot be answered by many. I don’t want those question to be answered either just because some are question are best if they are unanswered.

But some time in life there are few incidents that will always haunt you. I think there have been ample of those incidents in my college life. Either it had been first crush or last bus rush, either it had been friends break up or in the end your own exam screw up. These incidents never ever leave you in life. It just makes you just more think about those incidents in life. My life has been always full of these types of incident. The biggest of them had been how people have changed in life, some time they are your friend and next movement they are your enemy. But as the thing stand in the end of the college there are no bad feelings towards about anybody (but except few whom we will never forget).

I think as the life stand today it has been good to me, either in college or in any other place. But why it has to screw us when we really need the good luck. And then you think it is all about luck only.

In the first semester all the class mates act as a good friend, they always try to only to good to all. But in the inner self are they really wanted to be like that? There equation with all changes depending on their need and the person ability. Every week you find the equation changing with all of them. Good thing for me was that I had a solid group from start because we all were from hostel. So I was fortunate but there were people who came in the group and left. I never denied we had a grouping in the class and it was evident in every event. 

But still I never hated any one and nor they. It was more like we were not able to get on with each other.

I always believed every individual is different but we have to something in common to be a good friend. But the thing gets difficult for you decide who is right and who is wrong. I have terrible in judging people but still I managed to get it right more often or so. But the matter of face is you wrong decision always haunt you rather than right ones.

In college life I have seen quite things. But those bad memories don’t last long as they never give you anything in life. I never sulked about it and never will just because I never wanted it to be like that. but then again you always expect others also to do the same. Then you learn in life the biggest lesson, if you are good with someone; don’t expect them to be good with you also.

You always end up thinking, why they hate me, why they ditched me or even some time you end up doing some nice analysis. But do we need that? We should be happy in our life or we should be more than unhappy due to some unknown reasons. It was more of memories in life which you can’t change.

Well I am now trying to move out of all those bad memories in my life because now all those memories are dying quite fast. I don’t have any time in life to think about past but yes still I don’t have lots of answer. I wanted them few time back but now I want to let it go.

P.S.: College you might have good time or bad time but one thing you should never change is yourself. In the end this will be the only thing which will be with you always in life.

Deepak “Rousa”…Ek kavi, Ek dost

There was a Guy in my class who was so simple that some time I wonder who simple a person can be. He was not special in his looks, he dress up normally and his language was simpler. He was one of those gyus who you will miss out if you don’t interact with him and once you get in touch with him believe me you will not get bored and you will want more for him always. He was “Deepak Rousa” one of my class mate.

I don’t remember when I first met him in the college, also I don’t remember when I first time I noticed in the class. I came into his contact because of Jayant singh one of our close friend. From that point on I am obliged to have such a friend. He has his own qualities which is rare to find. He is poet and a very good one. In today world when everyone is running after the English here you find a guy who loves his language. The first time I heard his poem was in the class was about story of son and his mother. It was a classic story of our Rural India but the only difference is he was showing courage of family in the poem and other we’re seeing the sad part in rural Indian and their inability to do things. The emotions he brings in the poem are rare to find.

His first stage performance was in the farewell of our seniors. And he exceeded our expectation over there. I don’t know who recommended him but his whole part was once of the best and it was beginning of many such performances that we have witnessed in the stage. He was every regular in every event in the college after that.

But those how think his English is not good, you are wrong. He speech in the our debate competition was one the emotional touching description of the rural India and failure of PDS. He will never show how much it means to her everything that he do. You give him any work he will do it with his full dedication. Even he was regular in the class. If you meet him first time you will even never know that he is guzzar, I don’t know it is good or bad thing but you can never judge him with his looks.
He has his friend group where he was more comfortable. He never left them alone in college life. He used to sit the 3 or 4 seat of left hand side. And he made it own because nobody used to sit there. He never bunked class, His assignment was always on time ( And he used to write not copy from somewhere else).

There was a time when I have forgotten about this blog and used to be busy in facebook update only. One day he had a word with me who we can again restart this writing this part. I somehow started writing because of him and it was thing I love most after that.

Few line for Deepak “Rousa”..
“Ek kavi ki talash me na jane hum kaha bhatak gaye,
Who paas khada tha hum door nikal gaye,
Usne ek lambi si awaz di hai kahi se,
Sayad woh ussi ped ke neecha to nahi khada hai,
Jaha hum sham ki chai piya karte the,
Par Woh ped ab kisi aur ka hai aur ab chai b waha nahi h,
Sayad who ab kahi se bula raha hai”